sometimes when u wanna look 4 the guilty party, all u need to do is to look into the mirror

sometimes i think maybe its my face, or unless my interviewers feel i can be their PT agony aunt, i dunno why they like to ring me and tell me their personal R/S problems.

which brings me 2 rule 1: never give out ur hp easily

i suspect that many people like to be tortured emotionally, they get caught in the lousiest relationship with a dick/bitch for a partner (who obviously dun care abt u/is sleeping with someone else) and all they did was to whine n whine some more, so i would go: why not break up n walk away? why r u still doing these 2 yrselves?

they can justify and internalise and rationalise the partner's behaviour and come up with a thousand reasons. look, i dun care how good they were in the past, but if u r gonna continue thinking one day they would change, u r gravely mistaken sweetie.

investing the past 3/4/5 yrs of yr time/effort/emotions doesnt equate to hanging on for the sake of hanging on.

n i may as well tell u in ur face: hope will fcuk u up in the end. it always has.

i dun quite fathom how relatively smart, attractive ppl r slaves to such destructive relationships.

woe behold to those who like to add: i cant be alone etc i need to be with someone. what rubbish is that? if u cant be happy by yrself, what makes u think u can make others happy?

guys: dun use great sex as an excuse, i heard it a thousand times. look what it did to fcukface.

gals: dun use yr bodies to keep him, u can do beta. there r actually decent guys out there, if u look hard enuff.